Topic :Love Marriages or Arrange Marriages: Which is better?
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said this on 09 Dec 2007 3:10:47 PM CST
arrange merrage is better.
imegine u don't know abt ur patnar.and u try to understand ur patner and ur patner also. ur all family member will with u.
they will saport u.
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said this on 03 Jan 2008 9:17:39 AM CST
According to my view, Love marriage is Better than Arrange marriage, in Love Marriage we used to know About the partner and his/her Likes and Dislikes, and Everything About in a Period of time,if its the problem with your parents, all the people think that their parents dont accept Love marriages, why cant they Accept? if a he/she is Well educated and Living on their own money , why cant the accept?The problem is that Even a School and college going boys& girls are falling in love, they are not matured enough to understand what is love? what about Their future? all these things makes the failures of Love marriages..im not saying that arranged marriage is not gud, Both are having their own Scopes and Critism's, instead of living with a partner who dont him/her well, its better to Live with the partner who loved a most....thts what i feel....Thankq
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said this on 03 Jan 2008 12:40:44 PM CST
i believe both the arrange & love marriages have some advantages and disadvantages...in arrange marriage family chooses a boy/girl.they look on to different aspects like the family,qualities of the person,their capabilities etc...in a marriage family holds a vital role to play...in Indian society we have to admit that family is important 4 any person..the disadvantage of arrange marriage is that the boy and the girl don't get the time to discover each other.so they don't know the likes and dislikes of each other.....in love marriage the greatest advantage is that both the boy and the girl know each other very well..so they don't have a problem in adjusting with each other..but the disadvantage is that both don't know much about the families of each other..they don't think about what their parents are likely to say about this..this is really very bad..because this can harm both the families...we can see it from the rizwanur case where the love take the life of rizwanur..so before doing anything we should first inform our parents...so we have seen that both the marriages have their positives and negatives...in current scenario the arrange marriages are
more successful than love marriage...the last and most vital point is that if the couple has enough faith, love and understanding between them the marriage is surely going to be successful......
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said this on 10 Jan 2008 12:59:39 AM CST
Arrange marriage is better than love marriage.Since in arranged marriage no restriction.After marriage we have full support of our parents.In love they dont bother abt -ve things.Nowadays,both boys & girls are not worth in their love.Its waste of time.Finally, i want to conclude that Marriages are made in heaven only if they understand each other.otherwise it lead to way of the hell.
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said this on 23 Jan 2008 1:37:21 AM CST
According to me both Love maraige and arrange marriage are good . Nothing can be said without experiencing it . So i say that i have seen Love marraiage and arrange marraiges . And i have seen people happy in love marraiges and unhappy too and similarly in arrange marriage . Basically what matters is how we adjust with each other after marriage and well we get along and have a good life ahead . Yes there might be problems from our family sides if we go for love marraige but that should not define that love marriage is bad . how welll we care for our marriage whether it is love marraige or arrange and how much we respect it that matters .. so my conclusion would be that both are good . But if given an option i would go for love marraige .
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said this on 31 Jan 2008 10:22:24 PM CST
According to me both Love maraige and arrange marriage are good . believe both the arrange & love marriages have some advantages and disadvantages... marriage is not only the erlation of two people one boy &one girl ,, its d relation of two families... they will decide abt their spouse that he/she will be good 4 our family.. in case of lv marriage u hav time to better analyse ur partner abt his/her likings & dislikings affter spending time with him/her u can better say that i can spend my life with him/her or not
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said this on 14 Feb 2008 9:41:14 AM CST
acc. to me arrange marrige is better then luv marrige becoz arrange marrige can also be converted into luv marrige.if we do marrige with our parents choice then we can give them lots of happiness.
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said this on 26 Feb 2008 10:45:15 AM CST
Ha ! ha! ha ! r u jocking
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said this on 28 Feb 2008 8:40:21 AM CST
my friends , according to me luv marriage z better den arrenged one.see if u want 2 njoy each and every moment of life in a best way,its nessecery to have a compny of such a person who makes u feel realy awesum.In arrenge marriage one dont get chance to know each-other,and in some meetings or few hours its very difficult to know about others.so after being self dependent love marrige can give u a life like heaven.
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