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Yes I do agree with all your views. But can u all please answer my question. Can we start punishing each n every person.... who does crimes like that? In India where Govt is ruled by RICH PEOPLE who have money n power well considering all these facts. Some things can’t be changed. Rather we can bring awareness amongst ALL GROUPS OF PEOPLE, CHILDREN, and ELDERS AS WELL AS YOUNGSTERS who will get married in future. Well as keerthi and others has said ... People are not even considering whether the female is good, has got good capabilities. Rather than asking so many dowries.... what ever might be...? CHANGE SHUD HAPPEN WITH IN EACH OF US. So that we will be an example for future citizens....
This is what I feel realistically
The best way to eliminate dowry is to make it a needless one.
Neglect arranged marriage. Prefer for love marriage (with ur true partner)
Love, love, love.... true love. It will make dowry to be proud of love and can make the dowry a needless one.
Love marriage should rise in India.
I am agreeing above all points. Marriage become business now a days cause today’s some people don’t think about groom how is should be generally every parent think about "PARTY DENEWALA HAI KI NAHI".
Second is some people think about as if some family member dot able to study in Abroad so in that case family member thinks CHALO SHADHI KAR LETE HAI " they don’t think how girls are and what is qualifications are.
So now a days Marriage is agreement between to party.
Yes I accept all my friends’ pt
Today some marriages are in-between the spindermotors and the ford cars, not for two heart.
Some person selects their couples according to their degree, to improve their business.
For eg: doctors are joint with doctor, similarly engg, etc.
They are not giving important to their heart.
To avoid this government must take some action against these.
I disagree with Radhika; love marriage is not the solution to the problem. We have come across many cases where in-laws have troubled their daughters-in law after marriage also. The only solution to this problem lies in the hands of the youth. They should stop taking dowry. The govt should impose punishment on all the dowry takers irrespective of their social status.
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said this on 09 Mar 2007 4:34:01 PM IST
Hello all,
I can say peoples can get the money so, that it should be only for useful for the couples life and it should not be tears for the girls family. if they are willing, they can give but no compulsion or demanding should take place..
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said this on 19 Jan 2008 7:36:41 AM IST
Hi! all of us always like to hate each and every attck of superstition on our society.Have a look at the effect of dowary offering murder,harasshment,lack of respect to the girls and reduction of divine aspect of marriage.Is not it a superstition? It has covered with its entierity to us, So stand up with much courage and enthusiasm and take a step from you,your family to rerst of your society providing awarness and conserving the purity of marriage.
Think in many cases why people put their girl baby to an end before birth?
For the fear of dowary?
Just listen her cry....
Cry of an women being murdered for money?
Does comparison of love of a wife,affection of a mother be compared with money.
So ,come forward and say..
"TOGETHER WE CAN"......
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said this on 17 Feb 2008 1:27:01 PM IST
ya its true nowadays marriage become business
but don't you think a girl is also your sister if someone weigh her in money how you feel off course "GUSSA TO AYEGA HI " PAR KAR BHI KYA SAKTHEY HAIN LADKA ACCHA HE HAAT SE NIKAL JAYEGA these words you hear lots of the time ...
but don't you think a bride which is more towards money is really better life partner for you or for your daughter ? marriage means spending love between the two arranging peoples rather then spending money on them . we all know money is dynamic in nature so is it good to make its base in marriage ? i think love is static make it a base .... so “Remember that a successful marriage depends on two things: (1) finding the right person and (2) being the right person” in terms of love ..
what i think Marriage is a wonderful institution.. where we learn lots of think but its my request to you all make this institution free from money no fee is alloweded here ....and criteria for addimission in this institute is that bring certificates of love with you and money ....." ARE YOU AGREE WITH ME " ?
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said this on 13 Mar 2008 12:46:33 AM IST
yes,ido agree that marriages are treating now as bussiness.basically dowry is considering as tradition and culture.especially the rich people take it as a prestige that how much they has given and howmuch they give and take.in the earlier days people treat it as a tradition but now as the technology hs improved a lot and there is so much change in the mindset of people but still they are folowing these evil culture .and if we think practically now both men and women are treating equally and women are also studying equly with men so the parents of women should spend the money equally with men and how can they again afford to give dowry,how do they need dowry if both are well educated and able to earn for their future.so every body should think like this and try to abolish this dowry.
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said this on 07 Jul 2010 5:14:47 PM IST
i really really amaged after reading the sentenses of mr. Dr YVS
,bcoz he has taken this topic in a very very positive way and has given new tips too
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said this on 22 Jul 2010 5:21:48 PM IST
Dowry is a part of the age old tradition in India. There is nothing wrong in family of the bride wanting to dote upon gifts on their daughter. Dowry becomes an evil only when it is asked for.. This brings out the greedy side of the human beings.
But who are we to blame?. The Bridesgroom, his parents or the girl. In todays modern world girls are making progress by leaps and bounds. Be it any field girls have made their mark. But when it comes to marriages why do they take a back seat.. May be because they feel that marriage will lead to security and hence let their parents do the needful.. It is high time that the girls put their foot down on marrying a person on condition of dowries. Because they are the ones who have to leave their house and stay with the husband's family. There are many chances that even after taking huge dowry the bridegroom's family may harras the poor girl for more money. I think women have made a lot of progress and can make changes happen even in case of dowry.
That is why it is often said that when a man is educated he is the only one who is educated, but when a woman is educated then her entire family and future generations will be educated.
So my dear girls, please make use of your education and stand up for your rights.
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