Posted By: BINNY

Hi Everybody,

            I DONT agree with any of you. I think it is the prime responsibility of a girl's parents to give dowry. Parents should see that daughter should be given her share after marriage. I think it is responsibility of a girl to demand her parents for dowry.this way she can get her share. (Preventing brothers from eating away Sisters share)

            But this should not exceed the agreed upon terms before marriage. I.e. after the marriage.husband should not force his wife to get more dowries. This is the primary reason for Dowry deaths and harassments.

            I think Dowry should not be banned. But harassment for more dowries should be banned. Before the marriage we should register the marriage along with the agreed upon dowry and gifts with the Govt.this can prevent harassment for more dowry.
 

Posted By: sowmya571

Hello

            I never told that u will take dowry rather i am jus asking why do need dowry sir thatz all ... Today higher class people can pay lakhs n indeed crores of RS as dowry.but what ab middle class people who don’t have money itself. They harass females after getting married. We are all concerned ab them not all segments...

        And also one needs to be individualistic rather than expecting money from others. . If we are capable like have a good job for both n wife we can earn with that all the things this is what I feel ... do not no ab others...

Posted By: Madhuri

Hi,

         Even I agree with u all. Before asking some one to change first we have to change and we should also change our environment around us. Even government should pass strict rules, which may help in rural areas as they can fight against dowry problems. They should conduct awareness programs and bring awareness. And also a girl should get married when she gets minimum qualification by which she can stand on her foot so that if she can stand by her self if any problem come in future.
 

Posted By: csekayal

             DOWRY MAKES MARRIAGE AS BUSINESS.SO, WE WANT TO BAN THIS TYPE OF SYSTEM.

BCOZ OF THIS, MORE WOMEN ARE LOST THEIR LIFE

YOUNGER MUST THINK OF IT AND BAN THIS IN FUTURE!!!!!!!!!

IN MY PT OF VIEW DOWRY IT NOT NECESSARY    

Posted By: keerthi

Hi all,

             As our friend binny said girls can demand a share from their parents property legally, But not in the name of dowry. Now both boys and girls can excel well in all fields, and there is no differentiation between the two in terms of abilities. Then why should a boy demand dowry from a girl who can earn equally and can take care of the entire family? The only way to eliminate this system from roots is either by the way of punishment depending on the degree of crime, or its our responsibility not to accept or take dowry and don’t encourage any one to take dowry. So its the responsibility of both boys and girls not one.