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Posted By: pooja

           These days it has become common to have Gf or Bf but no true love only just time pass sake. It is affecting our Indian culture. I am not at all against of it but I believe in true love not the one, which is done only for time pass. But today’s youth they are falling in love in such a small ages so according to me they should realize that this is not the age for them this is the age when they can think about their careers so for doing anything their should be some right time...

Posted By: rajapattanayak

            I think now a day’s youth thinks that love is just a classroom. We have to enter into it. But I do believe love comes from the heart not from the eyes. Friendship is love and all other things are nothing but infatuation. We shouldn't make this love as a fashion. We have to think first what is infatuation and what is real love. I do believe if everyone thinks that love is nothing but giving everything to the beloved without expecting anything from her/him then this world must change to heaven.
 

Posted By: prasanna

Hi all

               I agree wid what pooja was saying but unfortunately this is only d age where ppl fall in love  .It has become very common for a common man these days 2 have a gf and he wastes whole of his pocket for d sake of his gf. We shld first think of our carriers at dis age and first settle in our life. After settling we can expedite in our own way. It has also become a fashion 2 have a gf or bf these days. Our parents struggle a lot for d sake of our future n we shld even think of dem also .Who r all those gf n bf who come in d middle of our lives. First settling in our life is very important. Then we can think of other activities.

Posted By: Madhuri

                Even I agree with Pooja. Now a day’s love has become a game between two people. First youth should concentrate on their career and should stand for themselves then they should think about others. Now days from small ages people are going crazy and spoiling their careers. But finally we should not forget our culture.

Posted By: faraz

             Well to define it precisely its not love between the youth but you can say its just infatuation. These things happen bcoz of the various films on display these days due to which the youth try to think that things in reel life can be enacted in real life. So, their friends to go ahead with such love acts propel such misguided youth. In most of the cases there is loss and misery to one or both the parties involved.

Posted By: ulty

Hello Friends I am in strong favor of love in youth Love marriages (the ones where you date, fall in love and decide to marry) are the best form of marriages ever. This is plainly because, I believe that god created male and female beings (animals or humans) to fall in love & this is entirely by natural instinct. It's only the ones who are in love that know what is good for them. This falling in love is entirely natural however, we as humans unlike animals, must take (or learn to take) responsibility for our actions. We must realize that by marrying someone, we are committing ourselves to making each other happy until death do us part, and such a commitment involves getting to understand each other very well & communicating well with each other & making compromises so as to sustain a healthy relationship.

            It is not that the love stories are new to our Indian culture. The great love stories of heer-ranjha, soni -mahiwal happened years before in India

            These are the social values that are clearly missing in American society (oh, that Britney Spears wedding and 48-hrs later, divorce - publicity stunt - was such a blatant example).

Posted By: vinvish

            Today’s love is as temporary as we change our clothes. Today having a gf has become a matter of prestige. The thinking of today's boys is that if they go around with their gf with a good bike and give them some treats in hotels and that's it. Even the girls expect their boys to have a good bike and give them some treats. Whether this influence of the films or the change in the thinking of this generation we cannot actually find out the reasons for it. Whatever it is one should not forget what are his/her responsibilities towards their parents everything should be under the limit.
 

Posted By: Nani

             Now a days love is become a fashion like wearing new clothes. Every people are thinking that having a gf or bf is a status. But they are not doing real love its only infatuation. Because of this time pass love nobody believe in true love.

           I am not opposing love but I am opposing the false love are time pass love. Real love always encourage to develop us either in our educational career or any other career wherever this false love is giving preference only for roaming on roads and making hole to our pockets.

           Everyone has to be careful when u r going to fall in love otherwise u have to face problems in future

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Posted By: Rathi

             That’s a good point what nani said, that in todays time there nothing like love. What is there is only infatuation, as without knowing any one how come u loves someone. Today sexual desire has taken place of love. Every one want their physical needs to be satisfied. On the other side this has also become status symbol for every one to have gf. Even every one wants he to get benefit from his/her partner in some way.

Posted By: moni

Now a day having a GF or a BF is a passion. They are imitating the western culture. In college if any one didn’t have at least a GF or BF means all of them call him a " Waste " and they will tease. But we can have that one for a small-scale refreshment (BF or GF) doesn’t ran behind them only. Really very glad to see that girls and boys are very friendly towards each other. But there should be a limitation for all. They have to acquire sheer knowledge about the life. Some times my comments will Hurt some BF and Gf's sorry for the interruption you continue your own kind of business.

Posted By: varsha

             I don’t think what we around in colleges and other institutes is love. It just infatuation in some cases or maybe just a chance to show off. But there are always exceptions. Youth is a period to explore your interests, whether it is in case of studies, career or relationships. Only through experience will a person realize what works for him/her.

          Also we need to remember the forbidden is always more exciting...so I believe too much of restrictions should be avoided. Also healthy interactions prepare a person to learn how to interact with peers in a civilized manner without making any one feel uncomfortable! -- Var SymRealOnLoad; var SymRealOnUnload; function SymOnUnload () {window.open = SymWinOpen; if (SymRealOnUnload! = null) SymRealOnUnload ();} function SymOnLoad () {if (SymRealOnLoad! = null) SymRealOnLoad (); window.open = SymRealWinOpen; SymRealOnUnload = window.onunload; window.onunload = SymOnUnload;} SymRealOnLoad = window.onload; window.onload = SymOnLoad; //-->
 

Posted By: Rathi

          Hi versha if the last line you wrote in your last post is in regard to my last post then I am very sorry. I apologize for that.

Posted By: sidhu

Your opinion on these days LOVE (bf & gf culture) in youth

Hi Friends,

           Love is very much similar only thing that changed is in doing it, in the past people use to spend lot of time in loving his/her companion, but today it's not the case where we can find instant love stories which starts from chatting, mobile phone call/messaging to opposite gender/same gender & it also break instantly, so friends, I like to say that Love is not a custom / course in a human life, its a natural feeling which everyone experience in life those who born with a good & strong mentality.